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Starting Over
Never To Late to Star Again
First Off I am a domestic violence survivor who moved to California years ago, who thought she had met the man of his dreams. In reality what he was looking for was a sugar mama. We were happy for a while, but he had two major downfalls the first would be his Mother, who gave him whatever he wanted and would do anything for her son, which included breaking up past relationships, and even eventually finding someone to her liking and arranging a marriage that would take care of son.
The second downfall is that this person, was a big time addict who had contracted the HIV virus years before he met me. The sad thing is that he never told me, about it when we first met it wasn’t until later that he finally told me.
He was never man enough to stand up to his mother, to fight because of his addiction. He finds women who he feels he can use and take advantage of just to have a place to live and stay. During our relationship, we signed a notarized document stating that we were in a committed relationship which was filed with the state of California making us legally bond.
I remember a time when he and his Mother tried to destroy me by creating a web of lies and making people believe things that weren’t true in order to make her son look good. When in reality he is the one who destroyed every relationship he has been in. A…