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Mother In Law — Control Narcissistic
When you are in a relationship with a controlled and abused son who later turned to drugs and alcohol to escape his pain. The control that she had over her sons was uncanny. One son left and moved out after he graduated from high school, and came around on holidays, and birthdays. However, her son Rusty was another story, he depended on her for everything she would always sneak him money under the table, and always came between his relationships.
On the day we met, I thought you were a dream, that I have been waiting for all of my life. However, as time went on and we got more and more serious about each other the more your mother interfered in our daily lives. She was constantly calling wanting to know what we were having for dinner, where we were going, and who we were going with.
She would constantly ask how much money we had in our bank account, and we at the time were learning to stay afloat and get by. Well, when he wanted money to go out and party and I said we did not have it to spare he would call his mother and showcase me as the evil one. The more we tried the more she interfered in our personal life.
If she only knew that the two of us became united after we moved into our condo, but he was afraid of what his mother and his parents would say. After a while, she would tell him don’t eat my food because she made him…